Tuesday, April 27, 2010

I need advice from a couple who is Christian or any other religion against premarital sex..?

I need to know if this is offensive or not. I've been thinking about starting a website. . . for Christian couples.. well any couples but mainly Christian for sex toys..





And when I say that I mean toys. Not porn. So there wouldn't be any nudity, any pictures objectifying men or women. Or any people, for that matter. It would all be clean. Nothing offensive. Hopefully not even pictures of women on the packaging of the toys if I can make that work out. Games would all be pure. Then the rest would probably be lingerie shown on mannequins, a couple ';kits'; for newlyweds. Like oils and .. you know the rest.





And it would basically be directed towards Christian couples so they can ';have fun'; and ';enjoy themselves'; without feeling impure, embarrassed, or ashamed, and still be able to find whatever it is they want to find without having to go in the disgusting shops...





Would that be offensive or immoral? And if I DID decide to do it.. what could I do to make people feel more comfortable %26amp; keep it as pure as possible. I don't normally discuss these things with other Christian couples, Okay I never do, so I'm not sure what things are offensive and what things aren't. But I can assure you there would NEVER be a single pornographic DVD or magazine on my website.





I asked this on a Christian forum but only two women replied with ';I WOULD never go to a store like that';. I never asked anymore questions after that because I just wanted to say ';your husband is bored.';I need advice from a couple who is Christian or any other religion against premarital sex..?
I used to go to conservative churches that teach that abstinence crap, and I learned that the leaders of these churches actually crack jokes about 30 and 40 year-old virgins behind their backs. Now I just send my Christian friends to the site below which debunks the whole thing against premarital sex in the Bible. It covers same-sex lifestyles too. I hope it helps you.I need advice from a couple who is Christian or any other religion against premarital sex..?
I would not and would that mean you would be caring the Karma Sudra?





Great book by the way, use to have until my religious mom burned it, I cried that day.





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Some of those sex Tories that many know so will teach people how to give preform better oral sex.
You don't need sex toys to have good sex. And I don't think that you will get Christians to go there, let alone buy anything. Do something else. And maybe her husband isn't bored or boring. Good sex doesn't need 'toys'.
I'm not sure if people associate purity with sex toys. You might not have lot of people mixing the two. But who knows. I think people tend to keep their dirty laundry away from their religion, but I could be wrong.
Sigh,


the time and effort some people go to,


to express themselves and get satisfaction....
I think some cucumbers and olive oil, tastefuly arranged, will do nicely.
Can I pre-order 5 vibrating crosses and 2 Mary Magdalene lingerie mannequins, please?
Leah, no premarital sex is so old school. Take it from a man of the cloth. Start your site, I'll guarantee you'll be surprised.
Your god said to be fruitful. He did not say you had to be married first.
i don't think this is a good idea because it might make people think it okay to have sex before marriage
people will order stuff just cause its a contradiction of itself
Do you think that a Christian couple is going to want to use a vibrator or any other item along those lines. If a husband %26amp; wife are Truly loving each other there is no reason to have any kind of mechanical toys in the bedroom. Oils or lingerie would be ok. Personally I have been a Christian for 37 years and married for 20. If I was not enough to satisfy my husband in bed then I would wonder what he was doing behind my back. I would be offended. I think he would be also If I was the one wanting something else to play with other than him. It has never been boring.
Honestly just do it..? We all need money and your right. their husband is bored. and alot of people use and love toys so why not do it? why worry about what other people think? would you look at a couple different if you knew they had sex? no thats stupid everybody has sex. Point is if you want to do it then do it. im not religious so i dont know gods ';rules'; on sex or toys but fact is it sounds like you have a interest in this and the site is a good idea so i would try it out. other people?...screw them. you could judge them right back. just ignore them and continue making money lol
LOL at ';your husband is bored.';





That is an interesting idea. I'm sure there must be an untapped market for this kind of thing, and a website is the perfect way to allow them to be discrete.





Nothing good ever came out of sexual repression. Just look at Ted Haggard if you don't believe me.





Feel free to contact me via my profile e-mail link. I have developed websites with online stores and content management systems recently, and would be interested in hearing more about this idea and perhaps helping you to achieve it.
I think you have a good idea here, and you obviously know your market and want to obviously please that market. There are many Christian couples who are willing to engage in some ';fun'; within their marriage and to have a ';clean'; site to go to that understands their ';needs'; and desires to not be bombarded with sexual pictures and smut is a great thing.


I personally do not find it offensive at all, and I think the ideas you have are good ways to keep your target audience happy and comfortable. Highlighting massage oils and cute lingerie might be a good thing and have ';sections'; so people can find what they are looking for without having to view other things they may not be comfortable with.


Some people are ok with vibrators, and others may find it offensive, so if there is a tab you have to press to get to the vibrators, then if a person does not want to view them, then they do not have to.





Good luck with your venture
My first reaction is ';no';. But I am not sure. What is your motive?





God is not against sex, as long as it is between married couples of the opposite sexes.





Keep it in prayer, talk to your pastor.

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