I need Christian advice.?

my bf %26amp; I have been 2gether 4 a while %26amp; we r both Christians. but recently i've let him ';touch me';, u know w/ his hands in my pants. anyway, we've never had sex %26amp; don't plan 2 until we're married. we've never even seen each other naked or even in underwear or underwear %26amp; bra 4 me or anything like that. we didn't even plan 2 go this far but i guess it was out of curiousity and human desire that this happened. i was wondering if it's wrong 2 do what we're doing? if so, is there any turning back now? is it possible 2 stop all 2gether? it's not that it doesn't feel good, that's a natural human thing, but i'm starting 2 feel a little worried. i didn't think anything of it until just the other day. please help. i don't want my relationship w/ God 2 suffer.I need Christian advice.?
Alright hunny, I am Christian too...I am glad that you yourself saw that it could be wrong and if you are worried then it is wrong. Touching is equally as bad because its sexual. It is very possible to stop all together. There is nothing better then waiting impatienty to make love with ';the one'; on your wedding night. If you really care...then you should stop. Kissing is as far as it should go. You guys can express your sexuality by emotions not physically pleasing eachother! Good Luck hunny! :)I need Christian advice.?
to deny your impulses is to deny the very thing that makes you human. if you do those things for love, and are true to eachother i dont see a problem. just make sure you respect eachothers boundries you know?
then ask jesus
Okay. It will only go as far as you guys let it!! I am a 22 year old virgin and waiting. I know how difficult it is. If you think it may go further than what you want then i would suggest you guys be around people when you guys are together. Never alone!!! Everyone who decided to wait for marriage has urges! You just have to try hard not to act on them. If you feel your relationship with God is going to suffer then pray about it. Um...im going to be in the same position as you with my guy soon, i just hope nothing ';bad'; happens!
I think you already know the answer to your question. You are just afraid that what you already know you are realizing what you are doing is wrong.


Yes, what is happening is wrong in the eyes of the church.


You need to be married before another man touches you in your ';certain places';.


No one ever ';plans'; to ';go this far'; as you say. Stuff like that has never been planned and never will be. It is always on the spur of the moment / heat of the moment.


The church says you should confess your sins to God or to a holy man - priest, minister, etc. and repent of your sins.


Depending on your religion - baptism may also be involved after you confess and repent.


Also the turning away from such activities is also preached by the church. You cannot continue to let him touch you anymore. Depending on your age, it may even be illegal.


If you are under 18 or 21, this kind of stuff is extremely illegal.


There are serious consequences for this kind of stuff under the state and federal laws for persons under 18 or 21.