I need a christian perspective on this, ive fallen for my best friend, i need good advice, help me out?

im in a bad place spiritually, im more alone then ive ever been, so i cant loose my best friend, but for the past couple weeks ive been developing feelings for her, what in the world should i do?





my best friend is a delightful girl who had bf problems a little bit ago, theyre kinda taking a break/kinda back together now. this guy though is a pervert and hes going no where in life, i know i can be a better man for her, i already have a job and im in college to get a better one. shes was dating this guy for around 2 years so she was kind of planning on marrying him, but then they got in a fight and are on the break now.





should i tell her how i feel? she tried to set me up with one of her friends, i wouldnt mind, but its not what i want. i want to be the guy that can give her the best. should i tell her? would it just ruin our friendship? if i should tell her, how should i do it?I need a christian perspective on this, ive fallen for my best friend, i need good advice, help me out?
First of all get right with God. He should be your number one priority. Then tell her that you think she deserves better than the boyfriend she has. Then if it's the right thing to do and at a different time, tell her that you have something to tell her but you don't want to ruin your friendship and then tell her your feelings.I need a christian perspective on this, ive fallen for my best friend, i need good advice, help me out?
You want a Christian perspective? Ok. Stop playing one up on this guy. Begin there and maybe, just maybe, you will find your answer, alter boy.
How does it make a difference if its a christian or not.





Do you want help? Or Bible passages that will lead you nowhere.





Tell her how you feel, its the natural way, however, if she tried to get you with one of her friends, and has been with a guy for 2 years, she might not be interested, especially when you're her best friend.
so, uh, you're asking people who've had their sexuality repressed by christianity to give you love advice?





something's wrong with this picture.
You can tell her how you feel but if she doesn't feel the same way back - what then? Are you prepared for that? Nothing kills a good friendship faster than a hazardous relationship. Trust me.
If you don't talk to her about your feelings, you will always regret it. So ask the Lord for joy and confidence and wise speech, and tell her how you feel.





Carpe diem, Seize the day.





If she doesn't feel the same, that's okay! Then you will know where she stands. In that case, accept it, remain her good friend, and romantically move on to a girl who will love you totally.





But maybe God allowed this break with her old bf to open up a space for you? As in Esther -- ';God has raised you up for such a time as this';.





Do itt.
well, since i'm not Christian i guess my advise wouldn't be worth reading. **shrug** too bad. i had some pretty advise good to offer you. oh well.
Better to tell her than not to. And if it doesn't work our or if she says no, at least you may still be friends.
You need His peace. Pray.





Phillipians 4





6Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. 7And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.
If it is not for Peter, it is not for Peter.
your wanting to get her on the rebound. bad boy you!!!
You are better than he is? Judge not or you will be judged.
Yes you should tell her. You need to be prepared for any answer though - she might say no.
Tell her how you feel. You dont want to regret not telling her later
Christian perspective, eh?


OK. You're a sinner and you're going to go to hell.
Do her.