Friday, April 30, 2010

I need some Christian advice?

i go to a private christian school but it is way to much pressure on me. the teachers aren't very good and i have a lot of homework and quizzes. i have like 8 quizzes a week and it is so stressful. test are frequent. i hate it there im miserable. ive thrown up a lot on the mornings just because of stress and anxiety. i cry all the time at school its so embarrassing. my best friend moved so i don't really have anyone. it seems like everyone else doesn't find it stressful. i think i really might be depressed here. but there is public school that im thinking about switching to. the only problem is they have a lot of bullying problem and there are lots of fights. and the classrooms are bigger. I don't know what to do it seems like every single school sucks. i just need some christian advice because no one gives me good advice. they all say its going to be ok its going to get better but i hasn't. i sometimes stop breathing. i don't have time for after school activities because of the homework and studying and i get lack of sleep from having to study half the night for all these pointless test and quizszes. where should i go to school? i feel so alone like no one understands me.I need some Christian advice?
You need to find another form of education that works for you. You will not receive a good education when it is physically making you ill with the stress involved. I am assuming your parents are concerned about your education as they are probably the ones footing the bills for this. You need to talk to them. This is not okay and you shouldn't have to go through this. You shouldn't go to the public school either. I wouldn't send my kids there, that's for sure! Pray to your Heavenly Father for help. Tell your parents you would like to do an on-line homeschooling program. You spend a couple hours a day doing your work and you can find programs where your parents don't have to be involved as much if they are busy. Programs very and there are a lot of good ones out there. Good luck to you and God bless you.I need some Christian advice?
sounds like you need to tell your parents. and to switch to a public school. ive never been to catholic school, but ive heard that they put more pressure on you there than they do at public school. look in the area for a public school -- not ALL public schools are bad; i go to one and i dont have fights all the time -- and just make sure you're happy.
First, what do your parents think about this?


You will have quizzes and tests at the public school too.





You said you have anxiety and stress. All teens have anxiety and stress but if you are feeling depressed but need to be talking to a counsellor. I went through depression and it's not usually something that you just snap out of. Ask your parents to take you to a dr. Talk to that dr and tell him about feeling depressed and ask him to send you to someone you can talk to. I'm not saying you need drugs. I never went on drugs for my depression. But I did have someone to talk to and I did learn some breathing techniques to keep me calmer.





Our children's pastor's wife was having a really hard time dealing with anxiety. She worried so much she exhausted me! LOL One day while talking to the senior pastor about how she was worrying about something he stopped her and asked if she has read her bible or prayed yet that day. Sheepishly she said no. He handed her his bible told her to sit and he'd be back in 30 mins. He told her to just open the bible read for 15 minutes and then pray for 15 minutes. Those instructions totally changed her life! Now, before she even gets out of bed she opens her bible and starts to read. Then she prays. She used to think she needed to be dressed for the day,to do those things. Which meant she need to exercise, take a shower, get dressed, eat breakfast, do her hair, her make up, etc. But the time she was done it was time to leave for the office. Now, she reads first and she is much calmer. In fact one morning I came into the office expecting her to be in a tizzy because of VBS and she was sitting there laughing and calming having her hot chocolate. I commented to her husband about how calmer she had been lately and he told me why she was calmer. He said twice he has come home to pick her up at lunch and she was all wired up and he looked at her and asked her what she had read in her bible that day and she admitted she hadn't read her bible. He sat down on the couch and told her he'd be willing to wait and sent her back to read and pray. He says it makes that much of a difference in her life. So, I said all that to ask you this. How is your relationship with your creator? Have to talked to him, really talked to him lately and have you been listening to His words for you? Be anxious for nothing the bible says. God will provide for you.





If you are still struggling perhaps you need extra help. Is there an older student who can be a study helper for you? Don't blame the teachers. Try to figure out why you just aren't getting it. Try to be friendly to one person in your classroom. Remember, it will take time but just put the Love of God on that person and make them feel very special, slowly you'll find that person warming up to your friendship and it will be reciprocated. Wow, I just wrote a novel. I'm praying for you, see you in heaven. Amy on the Farm

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