I need some christian advice?

okay so I've been wondering lately what in gods eyes makes us unpure in the sexual department.... i understand that losing your virginity before your married is bad but what other things should you NOT doI need some christian advice?
You should not grow pubic hair, wash your ';private area,'; or go to the doctor if it burns when you pee.I need some christian advice?
';Be imitators of God, therefore, as dearly loved children and live a life of love, just as Christ loved us and gave himself up for us as a fragrant offering and sacrifice to God.


But among you there must not be even a hint of sexual immorality, or of any kind of impurity, or of greed, because these are improper for God’s holy people. Nor should there be obscenity, foolish talk or coarse joking, which are out of place, but rather thanksgiving.';


Ephesians 5:1-4
Sex is for creating and expressing love and unity between a husband and wife, and for making children. Anything outside of that is an improper use of God's gift of sex.





Better to look at the purpose of the gift -- why does sex exist? -- rather than make lists of what you can and can't do while asking, ';How close can I get to having sex without offending God?'; Act in the proper spirit.





Practical advice? Set a firm boundary ahead of time and stick to it until you're married.
Don't put yourself in situations that can cause you to fall sexually. Even passionate kissing, fondling etc. usually will lead to the greater sin.





When you date, go with other couples or at least another person. And....wait for a (Christian) guy who is a virgin also, they are out there and The Lord will bring you together at the right time. God's ways are ALWAYS the best way. You'll be glad you waited.
The less you do before marriage the better. There should not be any touching of private areas. All works of the flesh are sin.





If you have done more than pure kissing or holding hands, just repent now.





1Corinthians 7:1..it is well for a man not to touch a woman,..





Read on for married people...
Using your sexuality to harm or manipulate other people is bad.





The concept of ';impure'; is a man made one, and varies from Christian denomination to denomination.
1Corinthians 7:1 ';Now concerning the things whereof ye wrote unto me: It is good for a man not to touch a woman.'; It's best to wait till you get married. Once something starts , it will lead to more.
Sex with anyone who is not your spouse, it's one of the worst because it is a spiritual act, demons are also passed back and forth through intercourse.
Homosexuality, incest, adultery, polygamous marriage.
Lust. Do not put yourself in a situation that makes you lust after somebody; know your boundaries.
I know sodomy is bad. But I can't remember the scriptures.
any sexual lust before marriage is a sin we are not to pleasure our flesh at all... before marriage..