My christian girlfriends parents dont accept me, any advice ??

my christian girlfriends parents dont accept me and im finding it frustrating. we have been going out for over two years now and while they pretend to like me but its pretty obviouse they dont and from what i have heard there whole family thinks that she would be better with a christian. i know chirstians believe in the whole un even yoke thing but i think thats rubbish. any advice on what i should do to make them accept me ??My christian girlfriends parents dont accept me, any advice ??
My dad is a protestant minister and I have also heard the unevenly yoked concern all my life. I know my parents were a little worried when I started dating my now fiance because he's a pretty secular guy. I'm sure they would have been more happy if I picked someone up in church rather than at a party. However, my parents have come around and are quite supportive of our wedding. The Bible talks about the difficulties Christians face when they're married to non-believers, so some of the resistance to you probably comes from simply wanting their daughter to have an easy time of it and not struggle in life. All you can really do is continue to be a stellar boyfriend and demonstrate how much you truly love and respect their daughter and will do everything in your power to take care of her. If they're super-conservative, it might take them a really long time to accept you, and they may never fully accept you. Hopefully you can at least reach a point of mutual respect and agree to disagree.





That said, you will definitely win points by showing her parents that you are a mature person who can respect others' deeply held beliefs. Not that I'm saying you have to become a Christian, but her parents are obviously going to play a part in your lives and you want a good relationship with them. Conciliatory gestures- like going with them to church- will go a long way in showing that you are team player and you recognize that this is her family, this is what her family does, and you can play along whenever you're visiting. You want them to feel like you want to become a part of their family. You don't want them to think that you're tearing their daughter away.





Be the bigger man and whatever you do, don't call someone's beliefs ';rubbish,'; because that puts them on the defensive. People on the defensive are in fight or flight mode and will not be able to think rationally, nor will they be able to see all of your good qualities.My christian girlfriends parents dont accept me, any advice ??
You're not going to change their opinion of you no matter what. I'm sure they've been Christians for quite some time, and aren't going to change their views just because their girlfriend is dating you. If your girlfriend truly loves you, she'll stay with you despite her parents. Just remember to respect them, no matter how uncomfortable they make you feel. I'm not quite sure how old you are, but as long as your girlfriend is going to live under her parent's roof, whether she's over eighteen or not, she's going to have to abide by the rules. If she's over eighteen and you both don't like how things are going on under her parent's roof, I suggest you arrange moving out.
Just be who you are鈾?..If they don't like you for that, then thats their problem. Don't get a bad attitude about it though... just don't let it bother you. The reason they most likely have a problem with you is because the don't want their little girl to be taken away from them with some boy. Its most likely not you... it would be anyone. The just don't think anyone is good enough for their daughter. Especially if they know you guys are serious and in love. That really scares them. ..Shes their baby. Just let it go... if your willing to stick it out and you really do love her, they will most likely slowly except you over time. Trust takes a while. Good luck with everything;)
you could become a christian!!!! but dont do it as a quick fix, only do it if you want to!! if you are interested!! i find it unchristian of them not to accept you unless you have hurt their daughter in some way there should be no reason for them not to like you. my brother is married to a christian woman, while he has no religion, his wife and her family are very loving and accepting toward him.





i think you should talk this out with the parents if you see a future for you and your girlfriend. sounds like they are judging you.
well as a christian, I can tell you that if her parents are Christians then they want her to be with someone that is a Christian also. As long as you are good to her and respect her, I don't see a problem with it. One of my friends is dating someone who wasn't a christian. she came to church and now she just got saved. I think that it's wonderful. Just talk to her parents and tell them that you respect her.





good luck!!
If they dislike you simply because you aren't of their brand of religion, then you're not going to change their feelings. Just be yourself, and hopefully you will show them that people of any religion (or no religion) can be really groovy people...





Small minds like that tend not to open very easily...they may well never accept you 100% so be prepared for that, if you and the girlfriend should take the next step together...
not trying to be rude or anything








but who cares if they dont accept u !!!!!???????


she is the one that has to accept u





but if u want them to ..then heres a tip


treat her like the world...be gud to her...let her see that u care for her...and it will show in her actions that she is happy and loves u ...and her parents will see tht she is happy ...then they will accept u ...


nothing makes parents more happier than to see their children happy...





so get to work buddy!!!!








I JUST LOOKED AT THESE DAMN COMMENTS!!! DONT CHANGE YA BELIF BECAUSE OF A LOVE FOR A WOMAN..DONT EVEN LET THAT COME INTO YOUR HEAD..ION KNW WUT RELIGION U ARE BUT NEVE...EVA...EVA..EVA...EVA CHANGE YA RELGION FOT A WOMAN....





IF IT IS MEANT FOR YALL TO B TOGETHER YALL WILL B TOGETHER...





DONT LISTEN TO ALL THESE PPL TELLING U TO CONVERT.... BECAUSE IF U CONVERT JUST FOR HER...THEN YOUR HEART WONT REALLI B THERE...





OBVIOSULY YOUR RELIGION IS NOT A PROBLEM FOR HER....
My parents don't accept my wife, and I'm not even Christian, they are. I left Christianity several years ago and they just won't let go. They think I should have married a Christian girl but that's the last thing I would have wanted to do.





My marriage is fine. Too bad for my parents they won't get to know my wife. Their loss.
Ok her parents sound a bit like my parents. They most likely percieve you as a bad person or a person who will lead her away from the church. I know you may hate this idea but have you ever considered attending church with her one sunday. If you do make sure you are respectful about it and dont be scared to ask them questions. That will show them that you do care and have an interest in it....or that you are pretending you do but they dont need to know that
Unfortunately other than turning Christian nothing will help for now.Just be courteous and polite to them, my husband of 25 years was hated by my family for about 4 years after we were married, but we never let it bother us.Cheer up if she loves you she will make it work with her family.
U are not going to change their minds unless u become a christian. Why stress out, you are not in love with them but with their daughter. If they don't appreciate u, the way u are then it is tough. They probably don't know you, but already they ar accusing you. Just don't care. And if their daughter decides to leave u, tell her fine, then move on and look for someone else.
I really can not give you an unbias opinion because I am too a christian. My advice is, if you love or care for your girlfriend enough, try the Christian experience. It has never failed me. If you really do not want to, talk to the family and let them know how you feel.
CONVERT let the lord into your life. IT's the only WAY!!! REPENT REPENT REPENT. It's the only way open your heart rectum and soul and LET JESUS in!!!!!!!!!! STAY PURE. LET Your girl wear WHITE on her WEDDING day. REPENT. The devil prays on jews he eats them for breakfast in his pit of damnation. REPENT.








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I blessed this page and as you read JESUS is dousing you in holy water.





GOD LOVES YOU however her family will not until YOU... well ya know
Just love her and take good care of her and adventually they will see how happy she is with you and they will look past it. It may take a while but if you love her it is worth it.
@S @ B@CKSLIDER CHRISTI@N MYSELF, MY P@RENTS DID THE S@ME THING, I ENDED UP M@RRING @T 18 TO @ BOY WHO @LSO IS CHRIST@N, C@USE I GOT PREGN@NT. THEY THEN H@TED HIN FOR @ WHILE. THE M@RRI@GE WENT B@D. HE CHE@TED ON ME @ BUNCH OF TIMES. I NOW D@TE OUT OF THE CHURCH, @ND DONT CURRENTLY @TTEND.
u need to convert into christian thats the only way and it would show ur love towards her by doing so





good luck XXXXXXXXX
if they cant except u 4 who u r then its not worth it. i kow that it hurts but its up 2 u 2 and parents cant tell u how u can and can not love .
I say if you really love this girl and want to be with her, then start going to church regular with her.
if she accepts it thats all that matetrs forget her parents they don't have a right to choose who she dates