Wednesday, December 23, 2009

I need some Christian advice please...?

My boyfriend told me that he believes prayer is supersticious (sp) Last night he barely talked to me and he's ruining my last few days of high school by talking to his ex girlfriend. I've been a bad Christian and gossiping to others about this girl that he's good friends with I appoligized to her and I feel terrible. I want to remember high school as good times not as horrible times. I'm so hurt, I really could use some advice.I need some Christian advice please...?
You apologized to her, right? The only thing you can do is to keep your apology and stop talking badly about her. Gossip is so bad because it always comes back to haunt you.





As for your boyfriend, perhaps it's time to part ways. He may be expressing to you that he's lost interest by showing you how he does not enjoy the things you enjoy and by talking with other girls, specifically his ex.





You will still have more good times, the summer isn't over. ;)





Think of all the great stuff during your entire time in high school, don't let your happiness revolve around or be affected by this event.





Before you know it you will be starting college, everything changes; you will see. It's a GOOD thing. Find hope in that your last days of high school are here- congratulations- you did it.





Then you will be moving on to a whole new array of experiences. The gossip, the cliques...none of that will matter anymore; trust me. :)





Be true to yourself, be true to your Faith. Lift up this situation to God in prayer, that He will grant you peace in your heart and hope for your future (which He plans to prosper you in- not harm you).





Peace. :)I need some Christian advice please...?
Sweetheart, as someone who just attended their ten year class reunion, I can almost promise when you think back to high school, you'll barely remember this drama, no matter how major it seems right now. Try not to get too upset about this stuff. You're just about to graduate and begin a brand new chapter in your life - a great one, by the way! This is a time for you to be excited! And as long as I'm giving advice, it sounds to me like you might need to consider getting rid of this guy. He obviously doesn't share your convictions, and is getting on your nerves. I say, just cut Him loose, enjoy your summer with your friends, and maybe pray about how God wants you to go about dating and how much you should committ yourself to guys. I didn't meet my huband - a wonderful, handsome, spiritual man untiI I was completely fed up with dating and having a ';boyfriend.'; You've got plenty to think about right now. Enjoy life and seek God with all your heart. Delight yourself in Him and He will take care of the rest. If you do this, you'll wake up one day and realize you have a fuller life than you ever dreamed of and you didn't even go looking for it! Congratulations on your Graduation and may God bless whatever road you choose to pursue next!
well, you can mention to him that there are medically documented miracles... also mention your feelings to him.. if he is just talking to her because he wants to make you miserable then you maybe should sever your ties with him, respectfully of course, as that will help you out... also can't stress this enough but remember to pray and spend time with God as you would be surprised at how much that will help you not only with your outlook on everything but help you with fighting the urge to gossip or to do any other sin.





wish you a great remainder of your high school experience.





Shalom
I'm not quite sure what your question is. Your boyfriend is certainly free to believe what he wants to believe, but if he is cheating on you because of that then it is obviously unacceptable.





Perhaps he feels closer to his ex girlfriend, or someone else, because they both feel the same way about prayer? Sorry, I just don't know based on what you've said.





Good luck.
Your boyfriend is obviously not a Believer. Its extrememly hard to have relationships with those who don't share our faith. The Bible actually tells us not to do it. If I were you, I would break it off with this boy and start our this new part of your life without the weight of an unbelieving partner.
Continue in your faith and by your witness perhaps your boyfriend will come around. Cease in your idle gossip and pray for guidance and strength from the Lord. We all stumble as we walk the path of sanctification. Rest in the assurance that the Lord keeps those that He has chosen unto salvation. Listen to the conviction of the Holy Spirit in your life, seeking God's forgiveness daily.
You should be with someone that will build you up, and not pull you down..you are so precious in the sight of God..and if you have repented (turned away from your sins) and trusted in Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, you are His precious daughter and princess and He has a prince set aside for you.
First pray sincerely to Jesus, telling Him that you are very sorry of what you have done. Then make up with that girl by doing good things to her , and reminding her that you are really very sorry.





Finally be true and genuine Christian. Study your bible regularly and pray to Jesus with all your heart.





God bless you.
Truly, ruining your last days of high school by talking to someone? That's a sin right there: envy.


Pray that God changes your heart.


So what if your boyfriend doesn't believe the power of prayer. Maybe you can pray that his heart changes too.
Pray for your boyfriend, try to explain your faith to him so maybe he will understand.





About his ex girl friend. You have to trust that if he cares about you, he will be faithful to you.





hope this helps!


God Bless!
Break up with him. God has something better for you.

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