I am a young Christian woman and I'm finding it hard to be single...any advice?

I'm a Single christian woman and there are times when I want to be with a man. How do I control my feelings?I am a young Christian woman and I'm finding it hard to be single...any advice?
Sexual frustration has proven negative affects on health, my advice to you is use protection.I am a young Christian woman and I'm finding it hard to be single...any advice?
I know the feeling, i am also a 22 year old Catholic young girl, and trust me, at times it gets really really tough. Turn your attention to prayer, tell God how you feel, ask him to bring someone to you in time, he knows who is best for you. He doesnt want you to go out with the wrong person and get hurt.





Maybe take up a hobby, ive joined the gym, go for a walk, volunteer, paint, draw, etc. Or why not try Catholic dating. There may be a poster advertising catholic dating at your church.





Be brave, you can get through this. I know its hard but sometimes its best to be on your own to discover the real you and give yourself some attention first.
Hi! This is you falling foul of a controlling church that deliberately makes you feel guilty because you want to be with a man. There is nothing wrong with you - you are committing no 'sin' ( unless he is married ) so don't feel as though you have to control anything. Go and enjoy yourself - life is for living - so go out and live it. Do no harm to man nor beast and treat others as you would like to be treated and you will not go far wrong. Good luck!
If you want to be chaste until marriage, just suck it up.





Maybe use a cilice on your thigh when you have urges, that should kill them and contrary to popular belief it won't scar and maim you, just discomfort you to a certain degree depending on what it's made of etc.





But it will ruin your health and your temperament, old maids are usually not very healthy, just very cantankerous - if this adjective holds a ';very';.





Humans are designed to have sex, they go sour without it.





So, I would rather counsel you to just do it (with appropriate care etc, of course).
God said in the old Testament where God is only reffered to ever as being 'God' and not The LORD your God is in the first page of Genesis. So perhaps the only part of the Bible that is true. So my advice to you is to do what God says in the beginning:





';And they were both naked, the man and his wife, and were not ashamed.';





Find a guy like you and be with him, any religion that controls you is not the will of God. Being with someone romantically is the best form of love there is and if God is love then you are a lot closer to Him. God does not will pain, so to supress your feelings is to supress love, in effect to supress God.





Just be yourself gal, if you need guidance look towards Jesus and Buddha, forget what anything else says, seriously I'm telliing you the truth.





Good luck =)
The more your life is filled with God the less will these things trouble you.





Are you too much influenced by the world and its ways?





Love not the world, neither the things that are in the world. If any man love the world, the love of the Father is not in him.


For all that is in the world, the lust of the flesh, and the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life, is not of the Father, but is of the world.


And the world passeth away, and the lust thereof: but he that doeth the will of God abideth for ever.








If there is an over regard for self and the self life, that needs to be cut off by the cross.





And he said to them all, If any man will come after me, let him deny himself, and take up his cross daily, and follow me.








Suffering can teach us much, Forasmuch then as Christ hath suffered for us in the flesh, arm yourselves likewise with the same mind: for he that hath suffered in the flesh hath ceased from sin;


That he no longer should live the rest of his time in the flesh to the lusts of men, but to the will of God.





Suffer then in this area and learn of God.














We are to live by Christ and His life. I am crucified with Christ: nevertheless I live; yet not I, but Christ liveth in me: and the life which I now live in the flesh I live by the faith of the Son of God, who loved me, and gave himself for me.





He gave His life for you, what are you willing to give for Him? He was willing to deny Himself for you, He overcame for you, how can you not overcome this through His overcoming life lived in and through you?





Learn to depend entirely upon God and live by His life and strength. He will provide what He knows is best for you whether it be through the mortification of such feelings or the provision of a husband.





Yet if you cannot overcome your temptations now, what makes you think you will when you are married? Will you not always carry this weakness if you do not overcome?





Surely God would have you overcome and to learn of Him before He would bless you?





Why do you imagine you are different? There are many brought into forced abstinence. In their trial there is a blessing, if they are willing to learn and receive, and many do.





The key is found in Romans 6.





Finding your union with Christ that as He was crucified so we can know that our old man is crucified with him, that the body of sin might be destroyed, that henceforth we should not serve sin.








For in that he died, he died unto sin once: but in that he liveth, he liveth unto God.


Likewise reckon ye also yourselves to be dead indeed unto sin, but alive unto God through Jesus Christ our Lord.


Let not sin therefore reign in your mortal body, that ye should obey it in the lusts thereof.


Neither yield ye your members as instruments of unrighteousness unto sin: but yield yourselves unto God, as those that are alive from the dead, and your members as instruments of righteousness unto God.


For sin shall not have dominion over you: for ye are not under the law, but under grace.





If you allow weeds to grow in a garden it is hard to remove them when they have taken root but if you continually pull them as they show, it will become easier and easier, and harder for them.





Reckon yourself dead to sin but alive to God and depend upon Him to make it so. Labour thereby to enter into His rest, seeking Him through those means He provides. (It is all there in the Scriptures if you seek). Will God not then come more and more into your life to replace and manage those former desires?








Or are you to be like the rich young ruler who went away grieved because he had much wealth?





For whosoever will save his life shall lose it: but whosoever will lose his life for my sake, the same shall save it.


For what is a man advantaged, if he gain the whole world, and lose himself, or be cast away?








Whatever we may think there is nothing more glorious nor more wonderful nor to be desired than the life of Christ indwelling and to walk with Him.
Keep your self untouched until marriage, make new female friends in a new faith until you get a man for marriage





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if u love that man so try to get his pic and when u fell him see his pic and when u thinking about him say to u self that he was layer and bad he just use me and dont try to think about him so match .





any thing ask from me.


love from u friend.
...avoiding things like movies and tv and pulling out the bible and reading at those times helps.





Also praying to the Lord for help with this and believing that He will provide you with the solution can help, luv...
Get Married.





GOD Bless YA,





Chicago Bob. (Imasinner)





Please pray for our Country and Our President (DAILY)





There is more Joy in JESUS in 24 hours, Than there is in the World in 365 Days. I have tried them both.(ME TO)


R.A. Torrey.
Many Christians these days have sex before marriage. but if it's important to you just hold onto it and think to yourself. There are many Christian dating websites that you could go on.
Get over with


You won't be first or a last


Take an example of young Christian ladies as the Bush twins and Bristol Palin


OR


There is always an masturbation
Follow your instinct and feelings.





It is against your human nature to do otherwise.
Christians don't ban you from having a relationship. Its only if you are a Nun its taboo.
The average female has at least three dozen males lined up wanting to be with them--what is your excuse?
There's nothing wrong with being a relationship.
www.exposingchristianity.com





www.skepticsannotatedbible.com
Wait, you're telling me christians aren't allowed to have relations with the opposite sex?





How are they not extinct?!
You are a woman first and foremost. Hope you find someone who will keep you happy.
Dating is fine. Just as long as the relationship doesn't turn sexual. I'm abstaining too! You're not alone!
Time to look for a husband.
stop being christian and start smelling sane
You go girl.
pray and ask God to guide you to the right man so you can marry.
pray and remmeber the joy and gift of being single
Get married then it isn't a problem ;-)
if you want to date, go ahead.