I NEED SOME SERIOUS CHRISTIAN ADVICE?

my guyfriend is totally in love with his girlfriend. Like head over heels. He thought he was a Christian, but he just found out that his girlfriend has had sex 5 times. She SAYS that she won't have sex with him, but he doesnt know what to do. i am NOT convinced. she's not a christian after all by the way. he doesnt know what to do.


And what should I do?I NEED SOME SERIOUS CHRISTIAN ADVICE?
Advice, mind your own business...I NEED SOME SERIOUS CHRISTIAN ADVICE?
Everyone involved should tread very carefully and the two of them need to have a serious heart-to-heart talk. If he is a Christian and she isn't, there is going to be a lot more problems than whether or not she is a virgin. We are warned in the Bible not to be unequally yoked for good reason.





The first decision to be made, is if there is any chance she will be able to be spiritually compatible. The second decision to be made, if they stay together is if she can be trusted not to cheat on him. Then they both have to choose to be celibate until marriage and be celibate together.





This is a delicate situation and you stand to lose the most if you interfere too much. It appears to me that the way you describe the situation they are headed for trouble as a couple. I could be wrong, but that is my first impression, not knowing either person or the entire story.
If she says she won't have sex with him then she is probably telling the truth and respecting his beliefs. People who aren't Christian can be nice and truthful as well. As for what you should do? I'm not sure what you mean by that. It's his girlfriend and his decision.
If this is about the whole virginity thing, really, grow up, formarriage doesn't exist anymore. If he can't accept that she had sex before meeting him (not like she was going to wait her whole life for him), then maybe he doesn't really love her that much, wouldn't you say? Loving involves forgiving.
if she has made mistakes. so have we all.


has she repented of the mistakes?


has she turned her life back to God?


if so then forgive her.





is he wanting to have Sex?


has he had sex before?





really there is not much you can do, be a friend if she can say that Jesus is her lord (that she belongs to Jesus Christ) then you should give her a chance.






The past is just that, the past..... he has to decide if he can let it go or not.... what she has done should have no reflection on today.... if he trust her he should be able to get past it all, if there is no trust , then they do not stand a chance.... go in peace.... God bless
you should myob. he should forgive her if he loves her and she should not be fornicating with anyone else. if that is what he wants from her then love is hardly what he feels for her and we definitely know what head.
Your friend should pray to God to help him make godly decisions and not act on His own counsel and use caution when maintaining a relationship with his girlfriend.
Maybe she is respecting his beliefs not to have sex before they are married. It's between him and his girlfriend. You should not do anything.
who cares what other people are doing? worry about you.
What a Christian should do..Forgive her...





If she's willing to be with him, then that's between the two of them..
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